Get Out Of Denial – Take Action – Stop Foreclosure Process

by Joe on October 22, 2009

Foreclosure is a countrywide concern right now. Foreclosures are up considerably over last year. Over a million Americans are facing the problem of impending stop home mortgage foreclosure. Most often this is because the buyer does not understand the terms of the contract, that is the small print on the back of the mortgage contract.

Now, all of that fine print is a lot of boring reading. The reality of it is there are very few who has ever read it, unless it is the attorney who wrote it. He only read it because he got paid to write it.

If the buyer had read it, they would know they were/are signing away their entire financial future. The buyer was signing on faith alone. Faith the bankster would not do anything underhanded or dirty. After all, there are laws against such shenanigans. But there are only laws against being cheated or defrauded if you can catch them. And then if you can find someone to prosecute the case for you.

These people are not stupid, but they are very much ignorant of real life unless they have experienced the system first hand. These are kind of folks who go through life with their heads stuck in the sand. They live in a state of denial.

When they get in a situation where they could and likely will lose their home they really do go into a state of denial. The kind of denial that will cause brain freeze. They are paralyzed by the thought of losing their home. They are still paralyzed as the sheriff is carting them to the lawn while still sitting on their couch thinking a miracle will save their home.

It is possible to stop foreclosure process if the homeowner is willing to get the information necessary to preserve their home.

Many of these folks to do have a clue about their finance in general, let alone the specifics of them. It is no wonder they are in financial hot water. Obviously this not everyone. There are those who do a very good job of managing their money that run run right into a wall they could never avoid.

Denial is a case having your head in the sand, i.e., if I cannot see it it must not exist, is so strong in these folks that they cannot bring themselves to sit down and do a real look-see of their financial life. The next worse thing to denial is brain freeze. The worse things get the more denial is shown in an effort to block out the problem. Denial or brain freeze is not a safe place to be when home mortgage foreclosure is staring you in the face.

When they see the stack of monthly bills and amount of debts put before them they will be shocked and dismayed.

The only thing worse than denial is brain freeze. The worse things get the more paralyzed they become. They want to block out the horrible reality of losing their homes and in the end will do absolutely nothing to save their shelter for their family.

After conducting a major telephone survey, Bankrate.com gave the average Joe and Suzie Six Pack an incredible ā€œDā€ in financial literacy. Most Mr. and Mrs. Six Packs do not have clue how much they owe and do not have a clue they are in financial difficulty until they find the mail box filled late notices and overdraft charges.

The real bottom line to this is, it is whole easier to write a check or pull out the credit card and buy something than it is to pull cash out of their pocket. If they would deal in cash they would think twice before dropping a $100 out for something they do not need.

Action is a must. If a homeowner is facing foreclosure, massive action is a must and it must be fast action. Knowledge is power, if it is used. Knowledge is freedom and if applied it is a relief from the do nothing state of mind of the paralyzed person.

Whatever you do, if your financial circumstances have changed or are possibly going to change in such a way you may be involved in home mortgage foreclosure you need to seek information to help dig you out the hole you find yourself in.

Part of this massive action is to get a handle on the finances. It is imperative to know how much is owed and to whom it is owed and how much a month is being paid to them.

Once this done it is time to contact the creditors and negotiate a realistic payment plan.

It is now possible to see how much money is needed each month to meet and pay off the bills on time and have some left over for normal living expenses. If the money is not there for all of the expenses, a plan can be made to trim back on unnecessary expenses and which creditors to contact to negotiate new terms.

It may also be necessary for one or both of the Six Packs to obtain additional employment or start a small home type business.

Taking action will often be the determining factor of whether or not the home will be saved from the auction block. It is time to take massive action if your home is in danger of being foreclosed on.

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